Okay, let's be real. Having in-laws who adore you *sounds* amazing, right? But what happens when "adoration" crosses the line into…obsession? If you find yourself thinking, "My in-laws are obsessed with me!", you're not alone. It's a tricky situation!
First, acknowledge your feelings. It's okay to feel overwhelmed, even if their intentions are good. Second, gently set boundaries. Start small. Maybe it's limiting visits or creating some distance on social media. Use "I" statements: "I really appreciate the gesture, but I need some space this week."
Third, enlist your partner's help. This is crucial! They need to understand your perspective and be willing to communicate boundaries with their family. Finally, remember that communication is key. While direct confrontation might not be the answer, open and honest conversations (with your partner and, when appropriate, your in-laws) can help everyone find a comfortable balance. Good luck!
