So, you've got a crush. Butterflies, racing heart, the whole shebang. But there's a twist – he doesn't even know you exist! This unfamiliar territory can feel overwhelming. Deep breaths! You're not alone.
First, understand it's perfectly normal. Attraction can blossom from afar. Now, how do you bridge the gap? Subtlety is key. Start with simply being *seen*. Position yourself near him in shared spaces (library, cafeteria, class). Catch his eye and offer a genuine, friendly smile. No pressure, just a simple hello.
Next, leverage common ground. Are you both in the same club? Is there a mutual friend? Use these as natural conversation starters. 'Hey, I saw you at the debate club meeting yesterday...' is way less intimidating than a direct approach.
Finally, remember your worth. Don't obsess or change yourself to get his attention. Be confident, be yourself, and let your amazing personality shine. He might just be as nervous as you are. And if it doesn't work out? That's okay too! There are plenty more fish in the sea… and maybe one day, *he* will have a crush on *you*.
