So, you want to slide into someone's DMs? It's a digital age skill, but tread carefully! Start by observing. What are their interests? What do they post about? Use this intel to your advantage.
**Forget the generic 'hey'.** It's a guaranteed ticket to the 'seen' zone. Instead, craft a message that shows you've actually paid attention. Comment on a recent story, ask a relevant question about a post, or share something related to their interests.
**Be genuine and respectful.** Avoid overly flirty or aggressive language. Think conversation starter, not pick-up line. A simple, 'Loved your post about [topic]! I've been thinking about [related thought] lately' can work wonders.
**Keep it concise.** Nobody wants a novel in their DMs. A few well-chosen sentences are far more effective than a rambling paragraph.
**And most importantly: if they don't respond, let it go.** No one owes you a reply. Respect their boundaries and move on. Sliding into DMs is an art, not a science. Good luck!
