Losing someone you care about is devastating. When your friend is grieving, finding the right words can feel impossible. A simple 'I'm so sorry for your loss' is a genuine starting point.
Beyond the basics, focus on offering support. Avoid clichés like 'They're in a better place' if you aren't sure of their beliefs. Instead, say something specific like, 'I remember how much [deceased's name] loved to [shared activity].' Sharing a positive memory can bring comfort.
More importantly, offer practical help. 'Can I bring you meals this week?' or 'I'm available to help with errands' shows you're there to ease their burden. Don't just say 'Let me know if you need anything,' be proactive.
Finally, be patient and understanding. Grief has no timeline. Check in regularly, even if they don't respond. Your continued presence is the most meaningful condolence you can offer. Your friend needs you now more than ever. Be there.
